Randomz.. being happy..!!

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And after spending time with self, realized that it's better and easier to stay happy and make ourself comfortable rather than expecting others to make us happy, we should first put ourselves in comfort zone and pamper ourselves. So it makes us and our loved ones happy...! Do you agree with me..!!!??

So what are we waiting for. It becomes a habit to always keep expecting one or the other things from others, have we ever thought why we expect..?! Well expectations does lead to happiness "if" they happen (which has least probability) and sadness on the other way round.

As far as I know expectations are our own perspective of things happening and the highlight here is that we forget that other people are involved in it and they have their own thought process :)

We could relate this with any relationships starting with parents, friends, better-half, colleagues, our bosses etc. Try not to expect or atleast reduce the volume of expectations, to see the fruit out of it :)

"Always hope, but never expect"

"Life is short, so enjoy each and every moment by being happy, spreading smile, filtering out worries...!"

Take care all.. I will be back soon with a story... Stay tuned...!

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