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Time...

One of my favourite aspect of life, Time..

It has the power to heal things,. Time has been an answer to most of the problems..
It's easy to wish for fast forward or rewind options to travel through time axis, but the strength remains in how well we handle the current situations.
Have you ever wondered, things that mattered at a point of time in life becomes less priority or disappear completely later on.. We would even laugh at the thoughts that we had back then, wondering how did we even give importance to such a small thing.
Time has taught me many lessons including the one I stated above, we often look back and wish to course-correct the actions or responses or decisions made by us previously. Funny thing is we won't give much thought process on present decisions and repeat the same cycle.
There were times I thought that I should have done even better in School, College, or interviews, or decisions I made in my professional career or personal life. End of the day, the fact is we make decisions depending on some amount of information we have at a point of time and those will be the most reasonable decisions. But additional information or clarity comes as the time goes by, and it's natural to revisit the situations, thinking about how better we could have handled it. This sometimes leads to regret as well. Nothing wrong in it. What's wrong is when we dwell ourselves in the past and not moving on.
Believe me, this is a typical cycle that keeps on coming. We will not be fully satisfied with us, and in a way it's good thing because we will tend to learn and grow for betterment.
That said, Time is a lovely thing, we need not regret about past and keep going ahead (well that's our only option though :) ). Embrace time, make time for yourself, your loved ones, do things that are sleeping in your To Do list for ages, Do it now, like Right Now!
We shouldn't lie to ourselves saying "I have no time..", we have got all our time, just that we need to focus and start utilising it. Let us fulfil the purpose of life given to us! :)

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